Friday, November 20, 2009

真的非常难开口!

你说我父母不疼你,有时后我真的不懂要怎样跟你开口。手心是肉,手背也是肉。难道你觉得你说这样的话的时候,是真的对得起我父母亲吗?疼不一定要说出口,是否想过有一天我们也会当成为人父母呢?

你伤心的时候,你没看到他们伤心,就判定他们只是在你父母面前才会关心你。这样子是否对他们公平呢?难道他们要在你面前哭哭啼啼才能说是体谅和疼惜你?有没有想过他们为了不让我们更难过,他们得很坚强面对,就算负悲伤的心情还得变成我们的精神支柱?这样子我们才可以更快的平复与恢复呢?我相信我的父母亲何尝不是痛心与悲伤的。你这样说我的父母亲,是否有想过我的感受?

天下父母心,试问天下那有不疼爱自己孩子的父母?我想信我的父母亲只是想跟我们加升亲子关系,想更让我们感受被疼爱的感觉。只是多问两句,只是问我们吃什么东西,为何你要那么大的反应?我现在的心情只可以那么写。。。。。眼泪着眼,悲伤穿心哽喉咙。

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

There's a trolley lying around....


Looks like I really have to say something....and I wish the management of NTUC could view this as a feedback, although it's not their fault...really.

Today I was on my way back home when I saw two abandoned NTUC trolleys parked under one of the HDB apartment blocks. It must have been my third time having to push the abandoned trolleys back to the NTUC compound. I was thinking who in the hell could have done this inconsiderate things, as a matter of fact.

To be precise, I view Singaporeans as a spoilt brat(s) living under the care of their mother "SINGAPORE". No offence, actually...I am a Singaporean, and bred in Singapore throughout. Singaporeans are always talking about how gracious they are, compassionate...etc. Sounds like....by the word of it......but in truth, it doesn't seem like. Look, I am not trying to play down Singapore or Singaporeans' goodness, as a matter of fact. But honestly, I think we should take a good look at ourselves and think whether we have been really gracious?

It might not have been any Singaporeans fault, it could have been anyone...but come to think of it. Even if it is a maid or even anyone, should we teach them not to push the trolleys back to our residence area after shopping, and just leave it there? When we leave it down there, things happen....the kid(s) who thought that it will be a fun idea to push the trolley(s) and banged it to the walls? Or might be even a case of us leaving the trolleys abandoned, letting the trolley(s) to be go through the rain and the sun. The trolleys' became defective from damage, and most probably have to be dumped or degenerate as it could no longer be in use. NTUC would have trolleys missing, how could we do this when everything has been paved and arranged for our convenience? Cost of making the trolleys = money, and it could have cost the Earth resources to deplete even faster. Which in turn, we have already harmed the Earth so much. Talk about RECYCLING! No matter what you do to help recycle, you and me will still not have any effective output on recycling. It all still boils down to discipline.

I am thinking, whether Singaporeans or anyone as a matter of fact, consider this situation as per below-mentioned :

1) The trolleys will all be deployed with a handcuff-function like device,which requires a key from another trolley to un-cuff the user's hand(s). Forget that one dollar coin device which keeps the coin till we hooked it with another trolley key! People will just think of means and ways to get the one dollar coin back, prying using pliers or whatever they could think of.

I guess this is the only way I can think of, and it will work because people will not like the idea of being seen cuffed to something. Hence they will actually bother to return the trolleys. Like it or not, People! It is due to our lack of discipline that cause all these issues, hence to rectify the issues, we will have instill something to enhance our disciplines. You might not think it's fair to everyone, especially those who returned the trolleys after using it. But in this case, shouldn't we make it a point "ALL for One, One for ALL" . The Army has taught and instill this into our mindset, when one makes the mistakes, the whole platoon will get the consequences. I think be it civilians or whoever it is, this will be the alternative to resolve the issue once and for all, until we really can discipline ourselves and return the trolleys back to where it is supposed to be.

Singaporeans are viewed as "Protected Animals", "Spoilt Brats", "Mommy's Child" and many other names. Cause we are actually given privileges, but still we misuse it. Note that PRIVILEGE and ENTITLEMENT is not the same thing. Privilege can be stripped off/taken away, but entitlement is what we are given and in most cases, it cannot be taken away from us.

So before this handcuff device really takes into effect, maybe we should start doing something about it? Hope this serves as a wake-up call to all.